6.2.09

It goes without saying how incredibly difficult today was for both of us. We woke up this morning and spent time together gaining strength and talking about Theo and all he stood for. The sun was shining and we were sure he was looking down on us sending all the support and love he could. I have no doubt in my mind that Theo was with us every step of the way. At times during the service, I managed to feel peaceful and happy thinking of my beautiful baby who was now at peace and that is a lovely memory to have. I didn't manage to see how full the church was, but I got a real sense of a lot of love and support and I know that carried us through today. It was so comforting to see some familiar and loved faces, and although they looked really sad, it felt nice to know so many people had travelled to be with us and say goodbye to Theo. We will take time over the next couple of days to personally thank friends who travelled a distance to be with us. It was really touching and comforting.
I am extremely proud of my husband for being able to stand up today and speak on behalf of the two of us. He has been so brave and supportive throughout our journey and I know our bond is even stronger. I know Theo would be very, very proud of his daddy. One of the hardest parts of today was watching Gary get dressed for the funeral. It was one of the most upsetting moments and I just felt so sorry for him. I never thought we would ever have to prepare for our own child's funeral and sometimes it is the less obvious moments that are the hardest.
Gary and I have made the decision that tonight will be our last posting on our blog. It makes me sad to say that as it kind of feels like goodbye. The blog has been a distraction, a record of events and also a huge support to ourselves but it is time to get on with the next part of our journey. I feel that the next bit will, in someway, be the hardest and I don't know how we get on with 'normal' life as there is now a huge void and nothing will ever be the same. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for sharing this journey with us and I know the blog will be read a hundred times by ourselves over the years as will your kind and comforting comments.

To our beautiful and brave son Theo,
May you be in peace now with the angels.
Forever in our hearts and always in our thoughts.
We love you to heaven and back...
Love mummy and daddy xxx

3.1.09

Thought I would add a picture of Theos other helpers who have kept him company on his journey.

A quick note to confirm funeral arrangements. The blog is probably the best way of informing people but we would also appreciate if anyone reading this could make phone calls etc to those you know we would want to be informed. We appreciate that not everyone will read the blog daily and we know you will understand the difficulty in getting in touch with everyone personally.

A service will be held at the Grangemouth Zetland Parish Church at 12.30pm on Friday 6th February. This is an open service to anyone wishing to attend and we would welcome all of Theo's supporters. We know many of you have followed Theo's journey and you may wish to say your farewells to him personally.
We will be holding a Private Family Burial at Kingscavil Cemetry following the church service.
Unfortuntely we will be unable to meet everyone so we have organised for some condolense books to be left out at the church. We would very much appreciate if everyone could write a message as we know we will find this comforting in the following weeks and it would be nice to have a record of all those that attended.

Directions to Church
http://maps.google.co.uk/maps?hl=en&tab=wl

2.1.09

A massive thanks again for all your support particularly with Theo's fundraising. It really is overwhelming.

Difficult day today as we had to organise a meeting to register Theo's birth but also death, meet the funeral director and then go out in the snow to find Theo a final resting place. Just seems so surreal at times and no one should ever have to do these things for their own child. It's amazing the strength we get from each other to get through these days and we know our journey has made us even stronger.

At this point we do not have a definite date & time for the funeral but we are aiming for Friday early afternoon, if we can be accommodated. We will be holding a public service in Grangemouth Zetland Parish church followed by a private burial. We should have the details tomorrow so will let you all know through the BLOG. Needless to say you are all welcome.

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1.2.09

Dad here again.

Thanks so far on all the fund raising support. We are already overwhelmed.

With Nic's permission, picture posted as promised. I dont think you need any more words from me tonight....

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